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How to Recover After A Business Failure

How to Recover After A Business Failure

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Wondering how to recover after a business failure? Whether it’s your first time as an entrepreneur or your nth time; failing any venture is never easy to accept. However, the proper mindset and planning can help you get back on your feet quicker and with more confidence than before.

Don’t Take Things Personally

One of the things you should remember is to not take a business failure personally. Don’t judge yourself too harshly. It’s your business that failed, not you as a person. The business failing is not all your fault. After all, there are alway circumstances you can’t control and other people involved. These people have their own reasons for making the decisions they did. So don’t play the blame-game either.

However, you should still take care of your personal needs at this time. Perhaps you need some time alone to process your feelings. If you need to cry your heart out, just do it. Give yourself permission to express your grief, your disappointment or frustrations. But set a time limit for yourself and don’t dwell on the negative emotions too much. Once you start feeling better, then you can go back to analyze things with a more objective point of view. Take the time and effort to properly recover from a business failure. Don’t rush it.

Reflect on The Lessons

A business failure is always an opportunity to reflect and learn. It helps to write down a list of what was good about the experience and what was bad. Then figure out where errors were made and how it lead to the business failing. What did you lack in starting your business? Do you need to get yourself your own dream team instead of relying solely on your self?

An honest review like this should help you identify the gaps in your previous plan. You can see the weak elements that need more support or need to be replaced with something better. You will also get to know yourself better. This will help you figure out your own decision-making process and the habits and perspectives you had that you need to change so you can make better decisions in the future. Essentially, you need to recover your personal confidence so you can work on your business much better.

Take Things A Step at A Time

Take the time to breathe and take things slowly. Recovering from any kind of loss, whether personal or business, should never be done in a hurry. Especially for beginner entrepreneurs, it is best to take the time to rebuild your resources and your own confidence before jumping right away into your next business venture. Unless you already had a Plan B in mind if Plan A failed. It would be great if every entrepreneur had a plan on how to recover from a business failure. But each failure is different and it is hard to prepare for all eventualities.

The usual results are always to be expected though. A business failure usually entails lack as well as loss of funds. So you need to decide whether you need to go back to being an employee for a while to rebuild your funds again. Many people go from employee to freelancer and back again. This is a common practice nowadays and nothing to be embarrassed about. The important thing is that you don’t quit your dream of having your own business. You’re just getting ready to build it up again.

Make A Better Plan

Failure is always an opportunity for learning. It wipes the slate clean so you can start again; this time with a better, stronger mindset and more courage to try something new. This means that you are now able to come up with a better plan for your business. Or your time as an employee may have helped you develop new passions and interests that you want to turn into a business. You may realize that your previous business plan is not what you truly wanted to do.

With the lessons you took away from your first business attempt and better knowledge of yourself; you are now more ready to take on a new endeavor or continue what you started with a better strategy. You can even create a new goal for your self and your business.

An entrepreneur should not be afraid to fail. Instead, you should always be excited to unleash the genius in you, and give your best at whatever you do. Don’t let failures bring you down. Let them be the fuel that fires your engines to get closer to your success.


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The Magic Shop

The Magic Shop

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Did you know that you can find your dreams in the magic shop? It is where you can be whatever you want to be. It’s a magical place where you can create the you that you want to become; the reality that you want to live. However, it is not a physical place; there is no address to look up. But it is always accessible to those who believe in its magic.

The Magical Mind

We all know the power of the human mind. It has sparked many inventions that greatly benefited humanity. Most of us however don’t believe in the abilities of our own minds. We are always in awe at the great minds who made great innovations but we seldom look to our own accomplishments. Most of the time, we use our mind to focus on the mistakes of our past instead of imagining what we want for our future.

Sometimes you change your mind… Sometimes your mind changes you.

Binyomin Scheiman

When we control what our mind focuses on, we can change our life. There is a mind-body connection technique that athletes use to practice. They imagine what they would do to win their game through visualization. You too can do that. Imagine yourself achieving your goal. How does success look and feel? What sounds do you hear when you realize your goal? Use all your senses in your visualization so you can teach your mind to focus on this version of reality that you want.

The Mysterious Heart

Emotions are at the core of our life experiences. It is often our emotions that lead us to make certain decisions even if they don’t make sense to our mind. When we follow these sudden urges and impulses, especially if they’re negative emotions, we often regret them afterwards. The good news is, just like our mind, we can learn to control our emotions and become better at how we process them. We can also control how we express our emotions towards other people.

Your intellect maybe confused, but your emotions never lie to you.

Roger Ebert

Our heart is considered to be the place where our emotions come from. Have you ever experienced a conflict between what your mind tells you and what you truly feel? This is because our emotions reflect our truest intentions. It also gives us hints of other people’s intentions towards us. We often refer to this as a “gut feeling” or intuition. In the end, our intuition turns out to be right. The sad fact is, not everyone trusts their own gut feeling or intuition. Learning to trust our feelings is an important step in changing our life. It helps us believe in our self and in our own abilities to reach our goals.

The Power of The Magic Shop

The magic shop is a therapeutic technique used in psychology to help individuals heal their inner wounds. Some people may be in a negative state of mind or are feeling confused and overwhelmed. The magic shop is where they can process such issues safely with the help of a therapist.

The psychological wares of the Shop are created out of real experience and brought about through fantasy, wishes, desire, faith, and hope. The products that people seek are custom-made. It is extremely important that each person get something that fits uniquely, or gets rid of something distasteful or modifies it constructively.

Earl Koile*

The magic shop is a place where you can imagine whatever you want, however you want. Here, you can express your truest intentions without fear of judgment from others. You can always go into the magic shop whenever you want because it is a space that you always carry with you. All you need is to close your eyes, open your heart and focus on creating what you want. It is a place where you can transform things into something better.

There are not many basic rules except that people pay for things they want to get or things they want to get rid of.

Earl Koile*

When you go into the magic shop, you do not only go to create what you want. You also need to give up what you don’t want in exchange. This process helps you to clarify what you truly want and don’t want. Your feelings will guide you in making your choices as you go through your creation or transformation process.

The Magic is Within You

Although this technique is used by therapists; it can also be useful to us in our daily lives. The magic shop is a place we can always go to when we are feeling down and want to cheer up. We can open the shop to take time to process our feelings and set our intentions for the future. We can use it to discover more of our selves. The most important part of this process is to keep an open mind and an open heart.

The magic in the shop is the magic within you. It is only waiting for you to use it. How powerful your magic is depends on how much you can believe and what your true intentions are. Once you go out of the magic shop, remember to use the compassion, kindness and understanding you extended to yourself in the shop towards others. This is one of the most effective ways to help you manifest the magic from the shop into your reality.

If you already have a meditation practice, then going into the magic shop would be easier for you. Before you go in, ask your self: What do I wish to acquire in the magic shop? What would I trade for it? How do I want to transform my life? What would I do to achieve it? Good luck and may the magic of the shop create miracles for your life.


*Quotes from The Magic Shop: The Therapist Masquerades as A Shopkeeper
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