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7 Simple Ways to Help Improve Your Wellness

7 Simple Ways to Help Improve Your Wellness

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Wellness is an important factor in life. The word “busy” is often considered a badge of honor worn by anyone who consider themselves hard-working adults, trying to get their lives together. Have a job that provides you food and shelter and pays the bills is something to be proud of but it should not be the only thing that you should be busy with. While our job takes up most of our time in our every day lives, we should not neglect the other aspects of our lives that play a major role in making our life experience all the more enjoyable. Learn ways on how to improve your wellness.

Remember that too much of a good thing is bad so here are 7 simple things that you can incorporate into your daily or weekly routine to improve your overall wellness.

1. Make a Plan

You can’t predict how your day will go but you can plan how you want it to be. Planning ahead allows you to manage your time and define your priorities that way you can take care of the important things first and you can free up time to do other things that you didn’t have time to do before. Your daily plan should help keep you focused all day and give you that feeling of satisfaction at the end of the day when you’ve checked off all your priorities for the day.

Daily planning is a good habit and if you get into this daily routine, you might even be encouraged to do it for longer time periods. Just make sure to follow the S.M.A.R.T. Goals strategy to ensure that your plans are realistic and attainable. However, before you write down concrete plans, you might want to engage your imagination and create a vision board to remind you of your long-term goals daily.

2. Eat Healthy and On Time

One of the things you should plan for is what to eat and when to eat. Most of us are too busy to get up from our office chairs to take our lunch breaks. This can also be due to poor planning of your tasks for the day which results in poor time management.

For those of us who don’t know what tasks are to be thrown at us once we get to work, eating should still be on your agenda. Don’t munch while at your desk but try to finish as much work as you can, take a break to eat and go back to the task at hand.

Believe it or not, distracting yourself from work for a short time can be helpful. It not only re-energizes you, it also refreshes your mental capacity to stay focused so you can focus better after taking a short break.

Similarly, while eating, stay focused on the task of eating too. Savor the smell and taste of the food, chew slowly and sit at a table away from your desk while doing so.

3. Stay Hydrated and Keep Moving

Exercise should be a part of our daily routine but if you don’t have that much time yet, then make the best of the time you have at work. One of the ways to keep ourselves physically healthy and in a healthy state of mind is to stay hydrated and to be constantly moving throughout our day. As most of us need to sit in an office chair several hours a day, we often forget to hydrate ourselves or get up and stretch our muscles.

Keep a water bottle at your desk and make it a goal to regularly drink from it at least every hour until you get your 8 glasses or more quota for the day. You will find yourself needing to pee every now and then at first but take it as an opportunity to stretch your legs and arms and to rest your eyes from staring at the computer. If you have time, take a short walk outside.

Taking short breaks in between tasks can help you be more focused and productive; just don’t get distracted by other things during your break. Also, be sure to refill your water bottle before you get back to your office desk.

Another way to keep moving at home is to do the chores. Don’t let work pile up and exhaust yourself tackling them over the weekend. Do them in small doses each day so you have time to rest up and actually enjoy your day off. The important thing is to remain healthy by slowly incorporating and observing the basic rules to maintain your physical health.

4. Keep In Touch With Your Important People

Busy people seldom have time to meet up with friends or eat a meal together with their families. Even so, we should make time for them in our daily lives. Just saying hello and keeping ourselves informed of what’s happening in each other’s lives is a simple way to strengthen bonds and maintain relationships.

This can be done with a simple text message, a short call or even a heart felt email to share some good news or a funny anecdote. You can do any of these at any time during the day. There are so many ways to send a message to the people you value the most; so don’t neglect this little habit to remind people how much you care and value them.

To maintain your relationships, you must also be honest with yourself and with other people. If you need to apologize, do it as soon as you can; don’t prolong your agony and theirs’. Also, be fair in dealing with others. Don’t hog all the blessings to yourself and learn to share fairly as well.

5. Stay In Touch With Your Inner Self

While eating healthy and on time, keeping yourself hydrated and constantly moving through the day are forms of self-care; keeping in touch with your inner self is the most important self-care routine that most of us neglect.

Staying in touch with your inner self helps you identify your body’s needs so you can give yourself physical care such as a self massage or a warm bath. It also helps you identify what emotions you are experiencing at the moment and how to alleviate them or enhance them.

One of the best ways to get in touch with your inner self is to meditate or do breathing exercises. There are many ways you can start to do this. You can also indulge your inner child by having fun once in a while such as dancing or singing to a lively song while doing some chores or playing games with other people.

You can even make work more fun this way by approaching it like a game. Win by crossing off more than half of your tasks on your To Do list. You can even set up a reward for winning the game; you set the the rules.

Another aspect of your life that could use a game approach is your finances. Try out this money jar budgeting system and see if you can get your bank account or wallet to come out as the winner at the end of the month.

6. Keep Improving Yourself

One sure fire way to stop yourself from comparing yourself to others and to improve your confidence level is to keep yourself busy with the task of self-improvement. How to do this? You just need to keep on learning.

Learn a new skill to improve your job performance if you want to advance in your career. Find out how the experts did it If you want to start a business. Join a dance class or learn from a personal trainer. If you want to improve your physical fitness, . If you want to indulge your creative side, learn how to play an instrument, learn how to draw or learn calligraphy.

As long as you have the desire to improve, then you should include learning as part of your daily routine. Take an hour or two of your day to learn something new. If you can’t take a physical class, learn online or read books. Keep your mind stimulated with new information so you keep improving yourself instead of dwelling on the things you wish you could do but you have no talent for. Remember that knowledge is power and innate talent can only be maximized with regular practice.

7. Keep a Gratitude Journal

One of the simplest ways to end your day on a positive note is to write down the things that you are grateful for that day. You have planned your day, you have accomplished much and you want to thank the Universe, God or the Divine Source for all the blessings you received for the day, in whatever form they came.

Most people start out by writing down at least 3-5 things but if you’re the prolific writer, then a whole essay is also okay. The point of this exercise is to recognize the positive things that made up your day instead of the negative ones. As you review your day, you will also be able to see what things make you happy or sad or angry. You can analyze these situations and get a better understanding of yourself this way too.

Remember, we shouldn’t be too busy to the point of neglecting the other areas of our lives as they play a major role in determining whether our life experiences turn out positive or negative. So stay focused and keep moving forward.

In the meantime, you can check out what is your current level of wellness so you have a clear idea of which aspect of your wellness to put more focus and effort on.


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Proper Mindset in Times of Crisis

Proper Mindset in Times of Crisis

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Everyone has to go through a crisis in life. It can be the loss of a loved one, a financial issue, a health problem, a conflict with a colleague, a lack of motivation or a pandemic. Whatever it is, it is all part of life. It can lead to despair and anxiety but with the proper mindset and correct strategies in place, you can emerge out of it as a better version of yourself.

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Problems in life are actually opportunities in disguise.

Every adversity is an opportunity for you to change your life for the better. It allows you to figure out what you are capable of. Growth only happens if you successfully navigate through them and learn the lessons in the process. It is going to be tough but it is possible to go through it successfully. All you need is to have the correct mindset.

Your mindset is the way you look at things. You need to believe that you can overcome whatever it is that you are going through right now. Believe in yourself. Remember that your mindset affects the direction of your life.

Whether you think you can or can’t, you are right.

– Henry Ford

Here are things that you can do to develop the proper mindset in times of crisis:

1. Acceptance

There are some problems that you can quickly solve but there are others that will be beyond your control. You may feel helpless. You may also feel anguish and pain. That is ok. You just have to learn and accept. Accept things that you cannot change. No matter how much you stress yourself about the situation, you need to move on.

2. Practice Gratitude

The practice of gratitude can help you through tough times. In fact, it is essential. Gratitude will help you look for the silver lining in every situation. Instead of focusing on the negative, gratitude will help you identify and magnify the blessings. It will make you feel optimistic and hopeful because your focus will shift from the negative to the positive. Start your gratitude journal now.

3. Have a Positive Attitude

It is easy to have a positive attitude when things are doing well. It is very difficult to do so when things are tough. Rather, it is much easier to drown in despair and self-pity. No matter how hard, keep in mind that the only road to a better life is to have a positive attitude.

You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you feel and do about what happens to you.

— Harold S. Kushner

Your mindset and attitude about life are both very important. Your mindset will affect the direction of your life whether it is happiness, good health, financial abundance or success that you are seeking.

4. Practice Mindfulness

Learn to quiet your mind. Meditate. Find calmness within yourself. The practice of mindfulness helps you deal with the negative emotions like fear, panic, sadness and pain. It is very effective in reducing stress and anxiety. It will also help you get in touch with your inner self. If you need assistance on how to practice meditation and mindfulness, sometimes it helps to seek the help of professionals who can teach you the practice of positive self-transformation.

5. Adopt and Act on The Situation

Instead of waiting for things to be better, do whatever you can to make it better now. Don’t wait for tomorrow. Your future begins today. Get rid of your stubbornness. Learn to adapt to the situation.

Just take for example the COVID-19 pandemic, Wherever you are in the world right now, you are affected. While a great number of people are not infected by the virus physically, the economic and even psychological impact has greatly affected millions of people around the world. You may be powerless to eliminate the problem but you can do something to lessen the impact in your life. You can keep yourself healthy by following the basic rule to combat diseases or do some simple things to improve your finances during a crisis.

If you can follow these things, one day you will be surprised that you have passed the crisis successfully. You have become a better person. You are now more mature to face future challenges.


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How Keeping a Gratitude Journal Can Change Your Life

How Keeping a Gratitude Journal Can Change Your Life

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It is no secret that an attitude of gratitude has positive effects but we seldom take the time to express gratitude in our daily lives. One way to incorporate this habit is by keeping a Gratitude Journal. Keeping a gratitude journal can change your life. Even Oprah Winfrey keeps such a journal:

…whenever there’s a grateful moment, I note it. I know for sure that appreciating whatever shows up for you in life changes your personal vibration. You radiate and generate more goodness for yourself when you’re aware of all you have and not focusing on your have-nots.

– Oprah Winfrey, Oprah

Starting a gratitude general is easy. Just get yourself a notebook and pen and write down 3-5 things that you are grateful for in your day. You may do this right before you sleep or you can out your notebook whenever you feel there’s something good to be grateful for throughout the day.

Here are some of the ways, a Gratitude Journal, can change your life.

1. Increase Positivity

Writing down the things that you are grateful for increases your positive vibes. It makes you more optimistic about your life as you focus on the good things that you are thankful for, taking time away from dwelling too much on negative thoughts and emotions. As you write down your blessings, you may even find yourself smiling more.

2. Improve Confidence

By seeing the good in things, you will also be able to easily see the good in you and be more appreciative of yourself. In doing so, you tend to lessen the impulse to compare yourself to others. Writing down your thoughts also increases your confidence in communicating with others as you are able to practice expressing your thoughts and feelings unto paper which in turn, can help you express them verbally to other people.

3. Improve Memory

At least, it helps you improve your memories of good experiences. The habit of reviewing your day to look for things you are grateful for enhances your associative memory. It is easier to recall things that you have strong feelings for than those that you don’t or just experienced in passing. This habit may even help you get rid of phobias from past traumas as you slowly start associating things that were previously negative in context with new experiences that are now more positive.

4. Reduce Stress

Developing a grateful attitude even in tough times inevitably results in feeling less stressed about life than usual. As you see more good things around you, noticing more positive things happening around you, you also tend to look for the positive in every situation. The time you spend worrying is gradually reduced and replaced with time spent observing and being grateful for what’s good in the moment.

A habit of gratitude also enhances your innate sense of faith that things will eventually turn out for the best and you go about your day with a more positive outlook of the future than you did before.

5. Better Sleep

As you review your day and ponder over the things that you are grateful for, you are less likely to dwell on your worries and enjoy a more sound, restful sleep. Writing down on your Gratitude Journal for just 15 minutes before going to sleep is a good way to wind down and put your mind into a calm state that encourages restful sleep.

You will see that as you practice being grateful, you will attract more things that you will be grateful for. Try keeping a Gratitude Journal for a at least a month and see if you experience the life-changing results.


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Rules to A Happy Life

Rules to A Happy Life

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Living a happy life seems like a simple goal but in reality, the journey is quite complicated. Depending on where you are in life; you will have a different set of rules that you follow to you can achieve your goals.

Everyone has their own path to happiness but these 7 rules to a happy life can help you along the way.

1. Be Grateful

Whatever life brings you, it pays to be grateful. Recognize that each experience, each situation that you are put in and each person that you encounter pushes you to the right direction.

It may be in the form of support for what you need to pursue your goals or by teaching you a life lesson that you need in order for you to progress to your next step. A positive experience is just as important as a negative experience to enable you to grow and prepare you for the next stage of your life.

2. Stay True to Yourself

Sometimes, we forget our own goals and dreams because we are programmed to conform to what other people’s standards have of us. We compare ourselves with others and want to imitate their kind of success; forgetting that each person has their own form of happiness, their own measure of success.

There is no one path to happiness or success. Stop comparing yourself to other people’s standards and stay true to yourself. Do what you feel is right to fulfill your own definition of happiness or success.

3. Don’t Lose Your Inner Child

“Adulting” is a popular term that we throw around to describe our daily struggles as grown ups. We feel overwhelmed with adult responsibilities that we don’t make time to “play” as it is not an adult thing to do. However, neglecting time for play depletes us of our creativity and may cause us to burn out at work.

Make time to indulge your playful inner child. Give in to your curiosity; ask about something you are curious about instead of suppressing it so you don’t annoy someone. From time to time, try out new things just because it’s exciting or fun and not because you need it for work.

If you have a passion project that involves harnessing your creative side, pursue it and make time for it even if it doesn’t contribute to your current job. You will be surprised how nurturing your inner child can help you grow as an adult.

4. Appreciate the Moment

Have you stopped and smelled the flowers lately? Have you gone out of your way to just stare at a beautiful sunset until it vanishes from view? If not, then now is a good time to start learning how to appreciate the moment.

Appreciating the moment helps you become more observant of the things around you and being grateful for them. It also makes it easier to notice the good things in any situation, place, thing or even person. This means that you shouldn’t hold yourself back from appreciating someone else and be honest about your praise or admiration.

If you have the urge to just bask in the sunshine in the middle of your walk to your office building, give in and enjoy the feeling of warmth revitalizing your whole body. Just remember to look for a safe spot first and don’t suddenly do it in the middle of the street.

5. Share Your Blessings

When you share your blessings you are blessed in return. Blessings don’t have to be just financial in form. Giving someone your time and effort is a form of sharing. Listening to someone vent out their issues is a form of sharing as well.

Financially, you may not have a big amount in your budget for this but the important thing is to share what you are able. So make sure that you include a “Give” or “Gifting” or “Tithe” portion in your budget. Small acts like giving a tip to a restaurant or a salon staff goes a long way.

6. Avoid the Drama

We see drama all the time on TV and in films that we have grown to expect the same situations in real life. We hear different kind of real-life dramas from the news and even from friends and relatives but we all know that these situations are never pleasant and don’t usually have a happy ending. So how do you avoid all the drama?

Focusing on the positive side of things and being grateful will be helpful in these situations. Staying away from people who bring drama into your life is one of the best ways to keep your good vibes all the time.

Of course, if you can’t help but be involved in drama, don’t forget to take a deep breathe and try to keep a level head and analyze the situation from a practical point of view instead of just reacting to your emotions. This way, you can focus on solutions instead of drowning in all the negative details.

7. Learn to Forgive

In order to make it easier for you to follow the rules outlined above, you must learn to forgive. Forgiving yourself first is the first step to accepting yourself and self-acceptance enables you to move on to the next step to become better.

Forgive yourself for your flaws and wrong decisions in the past. Forgive yourself for breaking a promise or indulging in that food treat that’s not supposed to be part of your diet. The important thing is to pick-up yourself again and continue where you left of or start over if needed.

It also important to learn to forgive others. If you carry grudges with you, it will be hard to be grateful. You won’t be able to appreciate the moment or other people; you won’t be able to indulge in fun times and you certainly won’t feel inclined to share your blessings whole heartedly.

Carrying grudges around certainly puts you in a situation that attracts constant drama and negative vibes. So learn to forgive others. Look at what you can learn from the situation or the person and move on from what happened. Forgiving others does not mean that you need to act like nothing bad happened but it is an opportunity to not dwell on the drama anymore and move forward.


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