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How to Build Your Authentic Personal Brand

How to Build Your Authentic Personal Brand

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Anyone can be an expert on personal branding. We know ourselves well, having lived with ourselves every single day. The reason we brand ourselves is simple – we want to stand out. “Personal image” and personal brand” are often interchanged. Personal image is the public’s perception of you, whether or not you do anything to alter your image. Your personal brand, on the other hand, is how you want people to perceive you. It is about reinventing your current image and transforming it to your own personal brand. If you are successful with your branding efforts, what people see will be synonymous to what you consciously and deliberately project as your personal brand. So, how to build your authentic personal brand?

You have a distinct advantage that companies do not. You have the ability to get very up-close and personal while companies strive to make their brand look more personal so that they can establish a relationship with their customers. This is the reason why celebrity endorsers, company spokespersons, and brand ambassadors are a six-figure commodity – companies piggyback on their personal image.

Building Your Personal Brand Through An Elevator Pitch

You are the perfect endorser, spokesperson and ambassador to represent your brand. The 60-second “elevator pitch” should be at the top of your playbook. This is especially useful nowadays where many first meetings and interviews are happening online. From an etiquette standpoint, refrain from doing small talks. The idea of an “elevator pitch” is to have a personal brand statement that captivates your audience in a few words. It is a simple exercise to understand yourself better and decide what you want to project to the world.

Parts of an Elevator Pitch

First 30 seconds

In the first 30 seconds of the pitch, talk about the following:

  • the first 10 seconds is for talking about who you are
  • 10 seconds about what you do
  • and the last 10 seconds is about why you do it.

Who you are is simple – you could be a chef, an artist, an engineer or a business owner. What you do is more specific and goes deeper into your interests, talents, and abilities. Why you do it breathes life to your personal brand statement. No two people will have the same answers because we all have different sets of experiences, beliefs and aspirations.

Traditional personal branding stresses on self-promotion and ends on the 30-second mark. The result is an artificial egocentric image. If your personal brand is all about you, no one is going to care. Now, here is the secret to building your authentic personal brand statement. Your personal brand is never about you. Your personal brand needs to answer the question: Why.

Last 30 seconds

Should they care? That accounts for the last 30 seconds of your pitch.To help you arrive at a strong statement, let’s break it down:

  • Who do you want to appeal to? Your personal brand is all about them. If you don’t identify your audience, your personal brand statement will lack focus. The more clear and specific you are, the more effective your statement will be.
  • How can you help them? Now that you have identified your audience, it’s important to find out what they want and what you can do that will benefit them. Identify their problem and other possible solutions.
  • What makes you different? Surely, you are not the only person in the world that holds the key to solving their problem.
  • Why does it have to be you? This is the capstone of your personal brand statement. For this part, it’s okay to talk about you. Give a unique and irresistible proposition. This is the right time to showcase your personality, past successes and innovations! This is the stuff that icons are made of.

Your Authentic Personal Brand Statement

I am [who you are, what you do and why you do it]. I help [target audience] solve or address [their problem or need] by [your unique proposition].

When you brand yourself using this approach, your personal brand statement becomes YOU – organic, authentic and holistic. Your image will be strong, distinct, relevant, meaningful, and memorable. Suddenly, outside competition disappears and all you need to compose with is yourself – or your best selves.


Written by Pauli Antoine, owner and founder of Etiquette de Manille and Red Archon. As an etiquette and protocol trainer, she addresses important areas on image and impressions, etiquette and customer relations skills, all vital to building every company’s most important asset – people.

Updated version with permission from Ms. Pauli Antoine. First published in F&B World Magazine, August-September 2012 issue.

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Style Comebacks Is The 2021 Fashion Trend

Style Comebacks Is The 2021 Fashion Trend

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It seems that style comebacks is the 2021 fashion trend. Decluttering was one of the ways we tried to calm down our anxieties and our boredom last year. If you have organized your closet and are just left with your closet must-haves; then it’s time to look at what you could add to it this year.

If you haven’t thrown out your clothes from several seasons ago, then you’re in luck. This year, it seems that the fashion styles from the past are making a come back. So you might want to shop your parents’s and grandparents’ closets instead.

Here are some of the fashion trends that are predicted to be popular this year.

Comfortable Loungewear

If you still have that matchy-matchy top and bottom loungewear hidden away, then it’s time to take them out. Comfortable loungewear have been elevated to outdoor wear. You can wear them to your office or get togethers. Just make sure they still look appropriate and you don’t look like you’re wearing sleep wear instead. The point here is to dress for comfort without discounting style.

Stay comfortable and stylish in loungewear.
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Pastel Colors + Metallics + Khakis

For those who still want to retain the minimalist vibe, clothing in pastel colors and reliable khaki bottoms will keep you looking stylish. Matching pastel wear, like loungewear, are in. Khaki skirts and pants are also going to be reliable bottoms for almost any kind of shirt or blouse including metallic tops! Metallic clothing is also back in style so you can now rock that sleek, shiny number you have hidden in your closet.

Khakis will compliment your classic, minimalist look.
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High-Waist & Big Jeans

Something else you can pair your stylish tops with are high-wasted jeans or big jeans. While we are already familiar with the high-waisted jeans trend, big jeans are making a comeback. Now you don’t have to be relegated to the skinny jeans for your outings because comfy, big jeans are back in style. Who knew that mom jeans will be part of the style comebacks that is the 2021 fashion trend?

High-waisted and big jeans are back again.
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Bra Tops + Bold Shoulders + Sweater Vests

You can pair your khakis and big jeans with bra tops and blouses with bold shoulders. There are different styles to choose from so be as bold or as classic as you want or get a style that satisfies both categories. For plain tops , sweater vests can add that stylish flair and keep you comfy in cool weather too.

Pick a toned down, bold shoulder top for a casual daytime look.
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Oversized Button Downs + Cut-Outs

We’ve seen the boyfriend shirt. This year, it’s time to own that oversized look. Oversized button downs in different styles and colors will be a comfortable fashion staple this year. You can pair them with khakis or big jeans or shorts for your grocery runs. For a bit of flair, cut-outs are still in. Wear them for a casual lunch with the girls or an elegant dinner.

Cut-outs and crochet? They’re both back!
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Florals & Tie Dyes

Florals are making a comeback as well. You don’t need to wear them just for summer. Tie dyes on the other hand do have a place in your closet for doing your errands or for road trips. Since both styles are quite eye-catching, make sure that they are still appropriate wear for the occasions you wear them to. You don’t want to stand out for the wrong reasons.

Floral patterns are in again.
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Netting + Crochet + Cinched Waists + Stylish Collars

Accessories can help your style stand out even more. Layering your plain tops with netting or a crochet vest adds a unique touch to your attire. If you’re wearing clothes with a lot of volume or quite flowy; then a belt can come in handy to give you back your shape. Take out your stylish belts and use them to cinch your waist for added style. Want to achieve a classic look? Try a top that has an interesting collar or accessorize your plain shirt with one. By the way, turtlenecks are also still on trend.

A cinched waist is still on trend.
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Trench Coats + Statement Coats + Windbreakers

For colder weather, trench coats are still preferred in classic cuts and neutral colors but in trendier styles. If it’s not that cold then a bright, colorful, statement coat is a great way to stay warm and fashionable at the same time. For a more sporty feel, windbreakers can act as a fashionable top while battling windy or rainy weather.

Your reliable windbreaker is still in style.
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Flat Platforms

If you’ve still got a pair of these still lying around then it’s their time to shine. Take them out and see which fashion trend you can try them out with. They can go with any of the clothes you have as long as they are in a neutral color. You can also go with plain colored or minimalist attire and let your bright colored shoes pop instead.

Welcome back your flat, platform shoes.
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Sustainability + Androgynous Tailoring

One of the things you will love about the 2021 fashion trend is it’s focus on sustainability. Clothing manufacturers and fashion trend setters are now more aware and focused on choosing items that are made from sustainable materials and processed that way as well.

Also, for people who want to try out some items from the men’s isle and vice versa, androgynous tailoring will give you that opportunity. Now you can have a couple vest or couple blazer to match each other.

These are some of the style comebacks of the 2021 fashion trend that you can watch out for. Considering a new wardrobe? Try out these tips on how to get a new wardrobe.

Do you have any of these clothings items in your closet? If yes, then lucky you. If not, then what styles do you want to try? What other fashion trends do you wish to see come back?


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